Friday, February 1, 2008

Deep Breath In.....Exhale....ahhhhhh

I've calmed down. I've also come to the realization that I simply cannot please and accomodate everyone. I'm just going to roll with it and do whatever I think should be done. I might have felt differently if any of the parents were paying, but as of yet the fuckers have offered up nothing!! So it's my way or the highway. I am of course asking opinions from my friends, because unlike with my mother and MIL, I actually give a damn what they think.

I am hereby making a promise to myself to enjoy this experience. Think I can keep it?

3 comments:

charmedgirl said...

it sounds like fun, even with the BS tossed in later. it's obvious you know what you want, and that you were actually enjoying yourself (FUCK..can't be right..).

as far as i see it, you were about to elope. do what you want to do!!

(we wanted to get married in vegas, with the sequined dress and feather boa and elvis get-up, but his mother freaked. we had the wedding here and we get shit about how she HATED it to this day, almost 8 years later. they will find a way to bitch no matter what.)

shay said...

I agree with Charmed girl (well except for the elvis part lol)
Do what you'd like to do.

It's your day NOT you mom's or you mils!

Can't wait to see the dress you choose. Can you post a pic?

shay said...

hey. Glad to hear you found your dress! How exciting!